Inspection of Affection Selection and Selection Exceptions

Abstract

From the perspective of affection exchange theory (AET), the tendency to communicate affection is an evolved adaptation in humans. Whereas the health and social outcomes of affectionate communication have been explored, there is much to learn about the desirability of affectionate communication in romantic relationships. AET proposes that affectionate behavior is a desired quality in romantic and sexual partners as well as fit parents. This study sought to discern how desirable an individual might be based on their portrayal of how affectionate they are, as well as how others might assess their fitness to be a parent or partner. The study found partial support for AET’s subpostulate 3c, indicating that the assessment of fit parenthood or partnerhood is moderated by gender. No association between portrayal affection or physical attraction, social attraction, or dating desirability was identified.